Divorce Coaching Services for a Brighter Future

Your Divorce Journey, With a Guide by your Side

“Where were you when I was going through my divorce?”

I hear that a lot.

Divorce is messy, emotional, and different for everyone. No two stories are the same—but one thing I often hear is: “I wish I had someone to help me through it.”

That’s where I come in.

Divorce After 40 Can Feel Like a Storm

Everything feels uncertain. You’re angry, sad, scared—and that’s okay.

And if you’re also navigating perimenopause or menopause, the emotional and physical toll can feel overwhelming. Hormonal shifts can intensify anxiety, brain fog, sleep issues, and mood swings—just when you need clarity and strength the most.

I’m here to be your thinking partner, your sounding board, your calm in the chaos.

I Help You Find Your Way

As your midlife divorce coach, I help you:

• Organize important documents

• Create checklists

• Set realistic short-term and long-term goals

• Rebuild your confidence and sense of identity

• Make thoughtful decisions that protect your future and your family

Communication & Co-Parenting

We'll take it one step at a time. Communication Is Key

Divorce doesn’t end relationships—it reshapes them.

Whether it’s with your ex, your kids, or your friends, I'll help you build new ways to connect and communicate.

Especially if you're co-parenting, we'll work on creating a healthy, respectful dynamic.

You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

Divorce is tough—but you don’t have to figure it all out by yourself.

And if you’re also dealing with the changes of midlife, you deserve extra support.

Let’s talk.

I'm here when you're ready.

📧 kim@kimanstey.com

What are some common divorce myths?

Let’s clear up some common misconceptions that can make divorce even harder than it needs to be:

1. Divorce means failure.

Divorce is not a failure—it’s a decision to move forward in a healthier direction. It takes courage to choose growth over staying stuck, especially for those experiencing divorce after 40.

2. You have to go to court.

Many divorces are resolved through mediation or collaborative processes. Court isn’t always necessary, and seeking divorce coaching can help you navigate these options effectively.

3. You should ‘win’ the divorce.

Divorce isn’t a battle to be won. It’s a transition to be managed with care, particularly when children are involved. Prioritizing divorce support can make this process smoother for everyone.

4. You’ll never be happy again.

Healing takes time, but many people discover greater happiness, freedom, and self-awareness after divorce. Life after divorce can lead to new opportunities and fulfillment.

5. It’s too late to start over.

Whether you’re 40, 50, or beyond, it’s never too late to create a fulfilling new chapter. Embracing midlife divorce can open doors to a vibrant future.

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Why Hire me?

Divorce is messy — but you don’t have to go through it alone. I help professional women navigate this storm with calm, clarity, and confidence.

Stay Calm in the Chaos

Divorce can feel like an emotional rollercoaster. I’ll help you manage the overwhelm so you can think clearly and avoid reacting out of anger or fear.

Make Smart, Confident Decisions

Not sure what to do next? Together, we’ll explore your options so you make informed, intentional choices instead of rushed ones you may regret.

Stay Organized & On Track

From paperwork to planning, I’ll help you keep everything in order — no missed details, no added stress, just a clear path forward.

Save Money (and Stress) on Legal Fees

Lawyers are valuable, but expensive. I’ll help you prepare for meetings so you use their time wisely and keep more money in your pocket.

Create Peaceful Co-Parenting Plans

If children are involved, I’ll guide you in building an arrangement that prioritizes their needs — while reducing conflict and keeping your home as calm as possible.

Rebuild Your Confidence & Future

Feeling lost, stuck, or invisible? I’ll help you find your voice, set boundaries, and step into this new chapter with courage and self-trust.

Ready to take the first step?

Schedule your free consultation today and discover how Through the Storm Divorce Coaching Services can help you!

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Is This Coaching Right for you?

🌟 Who I Work Best With

🚫 Who I’m Not the Right Coach For

✔ Women 40+ navigating divorce or separation
✔ Ready to move from overwhelm to clarity
✔ Open to growth, new tools, and honest conversations
✔ Want a safe, supportive, judgment-free space
✔ Committed to creating a new chapter they love

🚫 Who I’m Not the Right Coach For

✖ Looking for legal/financial advice (I’m not a lawyer or planner)
✖ Hoping someone else will “fix it” without effort
✖ Unwilling to be open or honest
✖ Only wanting to vent without taking action
✖ Wanting quick fixes without putting in the work