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Find Your Calm After the Storm

 The Through the STORM Method™ is a 5-pillar framework guiding professional women through the emotion, mental, and practical steps of divorce

Core Theme: Reclaim who you are beyond the marriage.


Client Mindset: “I don’t even know what I like anymore.” “Everything feels blurry — I’ve been in survival mode.”


What You're Experiencing: Loss of identity, self-doubt, exhaustion, and uncertainty about who you are now.


My Role as Your Coach: I help you reconnect to your values, rediscover your voice, and find your emotional footing.


Core Theme: Shift your inner dialogue from chaos to calm.


Client Mindset: “My mind won’t stop spinning.” “One minute I’m fine, the next I’m crying.” "Why is this happening to me?".


What You're Experiencing: Emotional highs and lows, overthinking, and anxiety.


My Role as Your Coach: I guide you to identify thought patterns, reframe negativity, and regulate emotions with calm, practical tools. 


Core Theme: Take your power back — one intentional choice at a time.


Client Mindset: “Why does he still have so much control?” “I can’t say no without guilt.”


What You're Experiencing: Boundary issues, fear of confrontation, uncertainty about decision-making.


My Role as Your Coach: I help you see what’s in your control, claim your agency, and set healthy boundaries with confidence. 


Core Theme: Design a life that reflects your true values and desires.


Client Mindset: “I’m ready to move forward, but where do I start?” “I want structure and direction again.”


What You're Experiencing: Re-entering life after divorce — adjusting career, finances, wellness, and routines.


My Role as Your Coach: I help you rebuild self-trust, create routines that fit your lifestyle, and set goals that align with your new chapter. 


Core Theme: Sustain your growth and step fully into your new chapter.


Client Mindset: “I finally feel like me again — I just don’t want to lose this.”


What You're Experiencing: Renewed confidence but fear of regression.


My Role as Your Coach: I help you celebrate your wins, anchor new habits, and define your purpose moving forward. 


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Why Hire me?

Divorce is messy — but you don’t have to go through it alone. I help professional women navigate this storm with calm, clarity, and confidence.


Stay Calm in the Chaos


Divorce can feel like an emotional rollercoaster. I’ll help you manage the overwhelm so you can think clearly and avoid reacting out of anger or fear.


Make Smart, Confident Decisions


Not sure what to do next? Together, we’ll explore your options so you make informed, intentional choices instead of rushed ones you may regret.


Stay Organized & On Track


From paperwork to planning, I’ll help you keep everything in order — no missed details, no added stress, just a clear path forward.


Save Money (and Stress) on Legal Fees


Lawyers are valuable, but expensive. I’ll help you prepare for meetings so you use their time wisely and keep more money in your pocket.


Create Peaceful Co-Parenting Plans


If children are involved, I’ll guide you in building an arrangement that prioritizes their needs — while reducing conflict and keeping your home as calm as possible.


Rebuild Your Confidence & Future


Feeling lost, stuck, or invisible? I’ll help you find your voice, set boundaries, and step into this new chapter with courage and self-trust.

Ready to take the first step?

Schedule your free consultation today and discover how Through the Storm Divorce Coaching Services can help you!

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