• Home
  • Modern Shortcuts
  • Divorce Support
    • Packages & Services
    • Through the STORM Method™
    • FAQs
    • My Story
    • Phases of a Divorce Storm
    • Divorce in Midlife
  • About
  • Blog
  • More
    • Home
    • Modern Shortcuts
    • Divorce Support
      • Packages & Services
      • Through the STORM Method™
      • FAQs
      • My Story
      • Phases of a Divorce Storm
      • Divorce in Midlife
    • About
    • Blog
  • Home
  • Modern Shortcuts
  • Divorce Support
    • Packages & Services
    • Through the STORM Method™
    • FAQs
    • My Story
    • Phases of a Divorce Storm
    • Divorce in Midlife
  • About
  • Blog

Meet Kim - My Story

I'm Kim, Happy to Meet You!

 I've Been Where You Are


Lost. Betrayed. Hurt. Overwhelmed. Scared. Unsure. Alone.


If you're feeling any of these right now, I want you to know—I see you. I’ve felt them too. And that’s exactly why I do what I do.


 My Story Begins with Divorce—Twice


As a child of divorce, I learned early what it means to adapt. New city, new school, new family dynamics—it was a lot to take in as a teenager. I survived, but not without lessons that shaped who I am today.


Years later, I became a mom. My partner worked out of province, and I often felt like a “sometimes single mom.” I juggled full-time work, parenting, pets, and a household. Then came the breakup—and I became a real single mom. The questions were endless:
How will I support us? Where will we live? What about custody?


 Dating Again—and Blending Families


Eventually, I dipped my toe into dating. It was terrifying.


Who would want a single mom? Could I trust someone around my child?


I met someone, we married, and blended our families. But blending isn’t easy. Despite our best efforts, the marriage ended when I was in my mid 40's. It was amicable, but still deeply emotional.


Looking back, I made decisions based on fear and emotion—decisions I now help other women avoid.

 

Why I Became a Divorce Coach


Friends and family began turning to me for advice on divorce and co-parenting. I realized I had something valuable to offer. I became a CDC Certified Divorce Coach, and today, I’m proud to be the only certified divorce coach in Newfoundland and Labrador.


I use both my personal journey and professional training to guide midlife women through the storm of separation—toward clarity, confidence, and a new beginning.

 

You’re Not Alone


Divorce in midlife is hard—but it can also be a turning point.


If you're ready to take the next step, I’m here to walk beside you.


Ready to Make a Change?

Schedule a free consultation today and let's explore how Through the Storm Divorce Coaching Services can help you guide you through the divorce storm.

Start the Journey

About Kim Anstey

My Philosophy - Supporting Women Through Divorce with Compassion and Strength

I work with women who are navigating the emotional and practical rollercoaster of divorce. This stage of life brings its own set of challenges—but also incredible opportunities for growth and reinvention.


My approach is all about compassionate, personalized support. I’m here to help you move through the uncertainty, the identity shifts, and the big decisions with clarity and confidence.


This isn’t just about getting through it—it’s about rising through it.


Together, we’ll explore tools, strategies, and mindset shifts that empower you to rebuild your life in a way that feels aligned, authentic, and full of possibility.


You don’t have to figure it all out alone. I’ll be right beside you—helping you turn this transition into a powerful new chapter of strength, resilience, and self-discovery.

Specialized Services for Women in Divorce

Emotional Recovery & Identity Rebuilding 

  • Support for women blindsided by unexpected divorce 
  • Help processing grief, betrayal, and loss of long-term identity 
  • Reconnecting with personal values, passions, and purpose 


Life Redesign & Visioning 

  • Guided exercises to reimagine your next chapter 
  • Visualization and journaling to rediscover your “why” 
  • Creating a personal mission statement for your future 


Confidence & Self-Worth Coaching 

  • Tools to rebuild self-esteem after years in a marriage 
  • Overcoming shame, guilt, or fear of starting over 
  • Empowerment coaching to help you feel strong and capable again 


Boundary Setting & Communication 

  • Establishing healthy boundaries with ex-spouses, adult children, and extended family 
  • Learning to say “no” and prioritize your own needs 
  • Conflict resolution and assertiveness training 


Dating & Relationship Readiness 

  • Exploring whether and when to date again 
  • Healing attachment wounds and setting new relationship standards 
  • Navigating online dating with clarity and confidence 


Group Coaching & Community Support  (Coming Soon)

  • Peer support groups for shared experiences and encouragement 
  • Workshops on resilience, self-care, and thriving after divorce 


More Information on Services and Pricing Packages check out Specialized Service Packages

 

Questions? Check out the FAQ Page 

Start Your Journey today
  • Home
  • Modern Shortcuts
  • About
  • Blog

Kim Anstey

Copyright © 2025 Kim Anstey - All Rights Reserved.

Powered by

This website uses cookies.

We use cookies to analyze website traffic and optimize your website experience. By accepting our use of cookies, your data will be aggregated with all other user data.

Accept