
I've Been Where You Are
Lost. Betrayed. Hurt. Overwhelmed. Scared. Unsure. Alone.
If you're feeling any of these right now, I want you to know—I see you. I’ve felt them too. And that’s exactly why I do what I do.
My Story Begins with Divorce—Twice
As a child of divorce, I learned early what it means to adapt. New city, new school, new family dynamics—it was a lot to take in as a teenager. I survived, but not without lessons that shaped who I am today.
Years later, I became a mom. My partner worked out of province, and I often felt like a “sometimes single mom.” I juggled full-time work, parenting, pets, and a household. Then came the breakup—and I became a real single mom. The questions were endless:
How will I support us? Where will we live? What about custody?
Dating Again—and Blending Families
Eventually, I dipped my toe into dating. It was terrifying.
Who would want a single mom? Could I trust someone around my child?
I met someone, we married, and blended our families. But blending isn’t easy. Despite our best efforts, the marriage ended when I was in my mid 40's. It was amicable, but still deeply emotional.
Looking back, I made decisions based on fear and emotion—decisions I now help other women avoid.
Why I Became a Divorce Coach
Friends and family began turning to me for advice on divorce and co-parenting. I realized I had something valuable to offer. I became a CDC Certified Divorce Coach, and today, I’m proud to be the only certified divorce coach in Newfoundland and Labrador.
I use both my personal journey and professional training to guide midlife women through the storm of separation—toward clarity, confidence, and a new beginning.
You’re Not Alone
Divorce in midlife is hard—but it can also be a turning point.
If you're ready to take the next step, I’m here to walk beside you.
Schedule a free consultation today and let's explore how Through the Storm Divorce Coaching Services can help you guide you through the divorce storm.

I work with women who are navigating the emotional and practical rollercoaster of divorce. This stage of life brings its own set of challenges—but also incredible opportunities for growth and reinvention.
My approach is all about compassionate, personalized support. I’m here to help you move through the uncertainty, the identity shifts, and the big decisions with clarity and confidence.
This isn’t just about getting through it—it’s about rising through it.
Together, we’ll explore tools, strategies, and mindset shifts that empower you to rebuild your life in a way that feels aligned, authentic, and full of possibility.
You don’t have to figure it all out alone. I’ll be right beside you—helping you turn this transition into a powerful new chapter of strength, resilience, and self-discovery.

Emotional Recovery & Identity Rebuilding
Life Redesign & Visioning
Confidence & Self-Worth Coaching
Boundary Setting & Communication
Dating & Relationship Readiness
Group Coaching & Community Support (Coming Soon)
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Kim Anstey
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