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Your Divorce Journey, With a Guide by your Side

“Where were you when I was going through my divorce?”


I hear that a lot.


Divorce is messy, emotional, and different for everyone. No two stories are the same—but one thing I often hear is: “I wish I had someone to help me through it.”


That’s where I come in.


Divorce After 40 Can Feel Like a Storm


Everything feels uncertain. You’re angry, sad, scared—and that’s okay.


And if you’re also navigating perimenopause or menopause, the emotional and physical toll can feel overwhelming. Hormonal shifts can intensify anxiety, brain fog, sleep issues, and mood swings—just when you need clarity and strength the most.


I’m here to be your thinking partner, your sounding board, your calm in the chaos.


I Help You Find Your Way


As your divorce coach, I help you:


• Organize important documents

• Create checklists

• Set realistic short-term and long-term goals

• Rebuild your confidence and sense of identity

• Make thoughtful decisions that protect your future and your family


Communication & Co-Parenting


We'll take it one step at a time. Communication Is Key


Divorce doesn’t end relationships—it reshapes them.


Whether it’s with your ex, your kids, or your friends, I'll help you build new ways to connect and communicate.


Especially if you're co-parenting, we'll work on creating a healthy, respectful dynamic.


You Don’t Have to Do This Alone


Divorce is tough—but you don’t have to figure it all out by yourself.


And if you’re also dealing with the changes of midlife, you deserve extra support.

Let’s talk.


I'm here when you're ready


Coaching Packages

Discovery Call

Finding Your North Star

Eye of The Storm

Let’s Connect.


No pressure, no commitment—just a chance to talk about where you are and how I can help.


What You Get:


  • 20 Minute Virtual Call
  • 1 Actionable recommendation


FREE

Eye of The Storm

Finding Your North Star

Eye of The Storm

Need help with a specific challenge?


One Time Session


This one-time session is perfect for focused support—whether it’s organizing documents, preparing for mediation, or navigating co-parenting.


What You get:


  • 90-minute 1:1 coaching session
  • Written Summary/personalized next-step checklist
  • 1 Week Email Support


What That Means for You


 ✔ Stop second-guessing and finally make a clear decision


 ✔ Leave with a written plan you can act on right away

 

✔ Feel immediate relief knowing you’re not facing this alone 


Founding Member Price $197  (Reg $297)

Finding Your North Star

Finding Your North Star

Through the STORM Method™

Ready to reset your focus and gain practical tools for clarity and confidence? 


4 Week Reset Package


What You Get:

  • 4 weekly 1:1 coaching sessions (60 mins each)
  • Clarity Compass Workbook
  • Scripts
  • Email Support


What That Means for You


 ✔ Rebuild focus and confidence after feeling stuck

 

✔ Handle tough conversations without fear or fumbling 


✔ Gain structure and momentum in your divorce journey  


Founding Member Price $497 (Reg. $697)


Through the STORM Method™

Through the STORM Method™

Is it time to finally step out of the storm—and into clarity, confidence, and a new beginning? 


12 Week NEW YOU Package


My signature program, Through the STORM Method™, walks you through the five pillars of healing: Self-Discovery, Thought Mastery, Ownership, Rebuilding, and Momentum — helping you move from chaos to calm with confidence.


What You Get:


  • Consistent 1:1 coaching sessions (12 weekly sessions, 60 mins each)
  • The Storm Breaker Journal + Script Pack
  • Access to The Storm Circle Community
  • Private Check-ins
  • A full roadmap for post-divorce life
  • Plus More!


What That Means for You


 ✔ Experience a complete mindset shift from overwhelmed → empowered 


✔ Build lasting tools and confidence you’ll use long after the divorce


 ✔ Feel supported every step with personalized coaching + community ✔ 


Founding Member Price $1697 (Reg $2497)

The Storm Circle

(Coming Soon)


 You don’t have to weather this storm alone. The Storm Circle gives you a safe space to connect with women who get it, rebuild your confidence, and start feeling like yourself again. 


What You Get:


  • Weekly themed Zoom calls
  • Private online community
  • Guest experts
  • Journaling prompts & healing exercises
  • & More! 

Custom Packages

Need something tailored to your unique situation?


Let’s create a plan that fits your life, your timeline, and your budget.

Book a Discovery Call

Flexible Payment Options Available

Is This Coaching Right for you?

🌟 Who I Work Best With

🚫 Who I’m Not the Right Coach For

🚫 Who I’m Not the Right Coach For

 ✔ Women 40+ navigating divorce or separation
✔ Ready to move from overwhelm to clarity
✔ Open to growth, new tools, and honest conversations
✔ Want a safe, supportive, judgment-free space
✔ Committed to creating a new chapter they love 

🚫 Who I’m Not the Right Coach For

🚫 Who I’m Not the Right Coach For

🚫 Who I’m Not the Right Coach For

 ✖ Looking for legal/financial advice (I’m not a lawyer or planner)
✖ Hoping someone else will “fix it” without effort
✖ Unwilling to be open or honest
✖ Only wanting to vent without taking action
✖ Wanting quick fixes without putting in the work 

What are some common divorce myths?

Let’s clear up some common misconceptions that can make divorce even harder than it needs to be:


1. Divorce means failure.


Divorce is not a failure—it’s a decision to move forward in a healthier direction. It takes courage to choose growth over staying stuck, especially for those experiencing divorce after 40.


2. You have to go to court.


Many divorces are resolved through mediation or collaborative processes. Court isn’t always necessary, and seeking divorce coaching can help you navigate these options effectively.


3. You should ‘win’ the divorce.


Divorce isn’t a battle to be won. It’s a transition to be managed with care, particularly when children are involved. Prioritizing divorce support can make this process smoother for everyone.


4. You’ll never be happy again.


Healing takes time, but many people discover greater happiness, freedom, and self-awareness after divorce. Life after divorce can lead to new opportunities and fulfillment.


5. It’s too late to start over.


Whether you’re 40, 50, or beyond, it’s never too late to create a fulfilling new chapter. Embracing midlife divorce can open doors to a vibrant future.

Hand drawing a balance scale comparing myths and facts.
A Framework for clarity, Confidence, and Calm

Through the STORM Method™

Divorce doesn’t have to define you. My 5-pillar framework helps women rebuild after divorce — one intentional step at a time

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